Tired of Love Déjà Vu, Dating the Same Wrong Men Over and Over?

Empowering Single Women to Break Free from Toxic Patterns & Discover the Path to Healthy, Lasting Love.

  • Trust Your Intuition

  • Develop Self-love & Self-worth

  • Attract the Right Partner

Yulia Savelyeva

Love Patterns Coach

Are You Stuck in Unhealthy Relationship Cycles?

Empowering Single Women to Break Free from Toxic Patterns & Discover the Path to Healthy, Lasting Love.

  • Trust Your Intuition

  • Develop Self-love & Self-worth

  • Attract the Right Partner

Yulia Savelyeva

Trauma-Informed Relationship Coach

“Why do I keep falling into the same traps, when all I want is a healthy relationship that sticks?”

Does this sound familiar to you?

You're a go-getter, always leveling up—in your career, your friendships, your life. So why does love slip through your fingers?

You've been down every rabbit hole: therapy, self-help books, late-night Google searches, Reddit forums and Facebook groups where well-intentioned, single women tell you to 'trust the process' or 'just be yourself.'

Yet, you keep finding yourself in situationships that fizzle out quicker than they started, or worse, licking your wounds and recovering after getting sucked into a long-term toxic relationship or marriage that stripped you of all confidence and self-worth.

Listen...

It's not that you're broken.

It's not that there's something wrong with you.

It's not that you're unworthy of genuine love.

It's the pattern. And patterns can be broken, so that's where I come in.

When I say I get it, I mean it. I'm not just another coach who's read a few books and became an 'expert'. I've lived the pain of repeated toxic patterns and relationships, feeling hopeless like love wasn't in the cards for me.

But then I hit a turning point. I dove deep into my own inner work, became a certified life and relationship coach, and trained as a Gottman Method educator.

I cracked the love code, shattered my patterns, and attracted a relationship that's not just everything I wanted—but beyond what I ever imagined was possible.

Now, I've made it my mission to help you write your own love story, just like I did mine.

“Why do I keep falling into the same traps, when all I want is a healthy relationship that sticks?”

Does this sound familiar to you? You're not alone.


You're a go-getter, always leveling up—in your career, your friendships, your life. So why does love seem to slip through your fingers?

You've been down every rabbit hole: therapy, self-help books, late-night Google searches, Reddit forums and Facebook groups where well-intentioned, single women tell you to 'trust the process' or 'just be yourself.'

Yet, you keep finding yourself in situationships that fizzle out quicker than they started, or worse, licking your wounds and recovering after getting sucked into a long-term toxic relationship or marriage that stripped you of all confidence and self-worth.

Listen...

It's not that you're broken.

It's not that there's something wrong with you.

It's not that you're unworthy of genuine love.

It's the pattern, and that's where I come in.

When I say I get it, I mean it. I'm not just another coach who's read a few books and became an 'expert'. I've lived the pain of repeated toxic patterns and relationships, feeling hopeless like love wasn't in the cards for me.

But then I hit a turning point. I dove deep into my own inner work, became a certified life and relationship coach, and trained as a Gottman Method educator.

I cracked the love code, shattered my patterns, and attracted a relationship that's not just everything I wanted—but beyond what I ever imagined was possible.

Now, I've made it my mission to help you write your own love story, just like I did mine.

Learn How To In Just Three Steps

Dig Deep - Unearth Your Love Patterns

Forget vague, surface-level advice. Together, we'll go beyond the basics.

By focusing on your "Inner Trilogy" of self-love, self-discovery, and self-awareness, we'll unearth the love patterns and their roots that have been holding you back.

This process is guided and safe, designed to give you a crystal-clear understanding of what's been sabotaging your love life.

Skill Up - Master Healthy Love

Once we've decoded your patterns, it's time to change how you approach love.

We'll equip you with emotional intelligence and the relationship skills you need to build and sustain connections that lead to lasting love.

No more guessing games—just straightforward, actionable tools.

Date Smart - Your Strategic Dating Plan

Armed with newfound self-knowledge and essential skills, we'll tailor your dating strategy.

I'll hand you the playbook you need to focus on finding the right partner for you, steering clear of time-wasters.

With your personalized DateWise Manual, you'll be fully equipped to make smart dating choices aimed at long-lasting love.

UNLOCK YOUR TOOLKIT

8 Tools to Uncover & Break Your Unhealthy Love Patterns.

Let’s rewrite your love story and find your love that

feels like home.

Wondering if we're a match, or have questions?

What Clients Are Saying

"Yulia recommended to me a structure on how to express my needs without sounding accusatory. Make sure to state clear facts rather than assumptions. Focus on current issues and do not bring up the past. My talk with my boyfriend went really well. He appreciated that I communicated from a place of love and said he heard me and appreciated my feedback."

- V.S

"Yulia helped me see where I need to apply and be okay with implementing boundaries. It's also made me think twice before letting new men into my life. I just can't approach dating the same way now. The red flags are so obvious.”

- Latosha W.

"I was looking to understand what gets in the way of communicating effectively with my husband and come up with a plan for coping with triggers. Yulia has helped empower me to learn how to show up authentically when communicating with my partner. She has provided me with tangible action steps and gently guides me towards a greater understanding of my own role in boundary setting and positive communication. Yulia is very in tune with your needs and provides coaching that always feels safe, encouraging and extremely validating. After her coaching I come away feeling hopeful that change is possible!"

- Tara M

"Yulia is absolutely amazing! Learning what was going wrong in my past relationships made a huge impact in being able to move forward and really attract the right man into my life. Since working with Yulia, I am now in a very healthy relationship and couldn't be happier. Thanks Yulia!"

- Jennifer Kobuki

Let’s rewrite your love story and find your love that

feels like home.

Wondering if we're a match, or have questions?

What Clients Are Saying

"Yulia recommended to me a structure on how to express my needs without sounding accusatory. Make sure to state clear facts rather than assumptions. Focus on current issues and do not bring up the past. My talk with my boyfriend went really well. He appreciated that I communicated from a place of love and said he heard me and appreciated my feedback."

- V.S

"Yulia helped me see where I need to apply and be okay with implementing boundaries. It's also made me think twice before letting new men into my life. I just can't approach dating the same way now. The red flags are so obvious.”

- Latosha W.

"I was looking to understand what gets in the way of communicating effectively with my husband and come up with a plan for coping with triggers. Yulia has helped empower me to learn how to show up authentically when communicating with my partner. She has provided me with tangible action steps and gently guides me towards a greater understanding of my own role in boundary setting and positive communication. Yulia is very in tune with your needs and provides coaching that always feels safe, encouraging and extremely validating. After her coaching I come away feeling hopeful that change is possible!"

- Tara M

"Yulia is absolutely amazing! Learning what was going wrong in my past relationships made a huge impact in being able to move forward and really attract the right man into my life. Since working with Yulia, I am now in a very healthy relationship and couldn't be happier. Thanks Yulia!"

- Jennifer Kobuki

Empowering single women to unlock their inner wisdom and shatter toxic love patterns so they can discover the love they truly deserve.

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